Mate Idealization Makes for Happy Early Marriage

They say that love is blind. And that’s probably for the best. Because a new study shows that people who greatly idealize their spouses have the happiest marriages. For the first few years, anyway. The research appears in the journal Psychological Science.

Karen Hopkin of Scientific American’s 60-Second Science reports that people who had seemingly unrealistic expectations of their spouses were nonetheless happier than more realistic mates in a marriage’s early years.

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