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Why Aren’t People Happier During the Holidays?
The New York Times: If you’re lucky and you’re not working this Christmas Eve, you may be just settling in for a cozy evening with family and friends. You may be going off to candlelight church services, or staying home, lighting the Christmas tree, listening to carols and sipping champagne with loved ones. Soon gifts will be exchanged and yummy food will be eaten. As the song goes, “It’s the most wonderful time of the year.” Or is it? Read the whole story: The New York Times
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Hug your kids, say you love them – and don’t over-talk the Connecticut shootings
The Globe and Mail: As U.S. President Barack Obama said in his statement to the press on Friday, every parent in the United States (and every parent in Canada who is shaken by the mass shooting at an elementary school in Connecticut) will hug their children a little tighter and tell them that they love them, and remind “each other how deeply we love one another.” But even though parents may be stunned by what is being called one of the worst school shootings in U.S. history, experts warn them against passing on their fears to their children.
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Monkey See, Monkey Do: Visual Feedback Is Necessary for Imitating Facial Expressions
Research using new technology shows that our ability to imitate facial expressions depends on learning that occurs through visual feedback. Studies of the chameleon effect confirm what salespeople, tricksters, and Lotharios have long known: Imitating another person’s postures and expressions is an important social lubricant. But how do we learn to imitate with any accuracy when we can’t see our own facial expressions and we can’t feel the facial expressions of others?
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Older People Become What They Think, Study Shows
The New York Times: All of us have beliefs — many of them subconscious, dating back to childhood — about what it means to get older. Psychologists call these “age stereotypes.” And, it turns out, they can have an important effect on seniors’ health. When stereotypes are negative — when seniors are convinced becoming old means becoming useless, helpless or devalued — they are less likely to seek preventive medical care and die earlier, and more likely to suffer memory loss and poor physical functioning, a growing body of research shows.
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Advice is given to help kids cope with the Connecticut school shooting
Examiner: The Connecticut school shooting is one of the most horrible tragedies in American history. It is very important to be very careful with how you approach your children in discussing this tragedy in order to avoid setting off serious depressions and other emotional problems. The advice of professionals you feel you can trust in dealing with your kids at this difficult time may be helpful. ABC News has reported this evening on Dec. 14, 2012, Connecticut School Shooting: 4 Tips to Help Kids Cope. Parents across the country trying to come to grips with the wide scope of the tragedy in Connecticut are wondering how to talk to their kids about it.
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How to Attack the Gender Wage Gap? Speak Up
The New York Times: ANNIE HOULE, grandmother of seven, holds up a stack of pink dollar bills. “How many of you know about the wage gap?” she asks a roomful of undergraduates, almost all of them women, at the College of Mount St. Vincent in the Bronx. A few hands go up. “Now, how many of you worry about being able to afford New York City when you graduate?” The room laughs. That’s a given. Ms. Houle is the national director of a group called the WAGE Project, which aims to close the gender pay gap. She explains that her dollar bills represent the amounts that women will make relative to men, on average, once they enter the work force.