From: Women's Health Australia
10 secrets of super-happy couples
October 19, 2011
Women’s Health Australia:
Whether you’ve been together for six months or six years, spend some time each day acting as if you just started dating. Ask him what he thought of that TV episode or share what you’d do if you won the lottery. “Over time, couples stop asking those exploratory, get-to-know-you questions because they think they already understand each other,” says Terri Orbuch, author of 5 Simple Steps to Take Your Marriage from Good to Great. But because we all continue to change and develop, little daily check-ins like this are what keep the connection growing, according to Orbuch’s research of 373 pairs. Chat about something beside the daily grind – at least for a bit.
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This is very consistent with Emotion-Focused Couples Therapy where we work on emotional connection rather than communication skills. Good to see some evidence backing it!
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